I started potty train Ashley since 23months + . Actually i wish to train her early but someone told me i should to train her after delivered baby Andersen. Yeah!
I think i'm quite lucky that i took only 3weeks + to trained her.:) But sometimes she would has accident. However its better put her on diaper when outing and bed time.
Well, i found that she scared stiff of join in the music class since two weeks ago. But it really annoyed me to find out the answer why she has this anxiety? Cuz she enjoyed the classes all the while from the beginning.
Initially i felt angry and sad when i saw her howling, of course i know i shouldn't compel her but WHY does she turn this suddenly ?
One of my good fren commented maybe am wrong to let her the participation moves too much. Well, i very earnest has thought this question. Am i? Yea, maybe yes, maybe not. However, I think the main reason is she scared of the noisy environment. She cried when peoples started to playing the music instruments in suddenly.
Okay, anyway i don't wish to bring the negative influence to her. So, I wish to steer clear the music class immediately and restart it after my confinement. Somebody may concern what about her Shichida's class? Aw, she likes it very much! And she has great benefits and great progress from the classes.
Frankly, i can say Ashley is a very intelligent child. But she has her own personality as she is very gentle, soft and timid. As for social development, go slow.
What's the 'standard form' of the children's personality developments??? I can say, all child is an individual. They are unique and meet milestones at their own pace.
Others developments:-
~ can memorize simple picture related to their words
~ can listen to a short story or book with good concentration
~ carries on a simple short conversation, "what a mess!" she said. "who mess up the place?" i asked her. "u!" "u!" "Ashley"
~ Recites own name
~ puts on a short pant
~ ask u "go home" when she felt bored or tired
~ understands 'mine'
~ stacks 5blocks
~ understands some descriptions ( eg.big, sharp )
~ recognizes when something is wrong
~ learns words at a rate of ten or more a day
~ puts on loose fitting cloths
~ begins to understand sooner or later
~ ask u or herself will turn off the tv or fan when she wants to go out or bed
~ always call me "mama" then "hi" to me when she knew am unhappy or angry with her behavior
~ able read 1-10 in malay, english, mandarine
~ say "done" when u finished washed her hand, finished bath...
~ makes two-three words a sentence e.g."i want my book" , "bath for me"
How time flies, my Ashley gal turned 18 months today. I still will do the monthly summary milestone of her although i had missed the last one. Sometimes i just can't recall everything that she has developed but i'll trying my best.
She such my dear child!
• Energetic (walk more steadily, Can walk up stairs with holding my hands but probably not down, run, push, pull, take apart, carry, and climb on and grab things).
• She can also hold in her mind a clear memory of an object well after you remove it from her vision.
• Sorts toys by shape
• Like to imitate the sounds and actions of others (by pretending to do housework or your appearances ).
• Add variations to their physical skills (by walking back-wards or sideways ).
• Play alone or alongside other toddlers.
• Sings simple tunes
• can also link two words together ( mama de, baba de, yi yi de, this one, ai ni, more pls ... )
• does a lot of babbling in imitation of the adult conversations she hears.
• will come to give daddy, mummy and yee yee a kiss on her own initiative. (so sweet!!!)
• Milk intake 4oz - 7oz, 3 - 4 times a day.
• Picky eater
• Speaks loud and clear
• likes kicks ball
The most important thing is that your toddler is growing at a steady, appropriate rate, not that he's hit some magic number.